why is it that people with self harm problems are dismissed if they’re doing it for attention. that’s so fucked up jesus christ you are literally telling somebody it doesn’t matter if they hurt themselves because they’re doing it for the wrong reasons 

because giving that person attention for this will only encourage them to do even more. i understand what you’re trying to say but you gotta dismiss that person, especially if a loved one, to get them to stop whatever the fuck they’re doing. supporting them is like saying that they’re only important and will get attention if they do bad things to themselves

that doesn’t make any sense though? if they hurt themselves because they don’t feel like they’re getting enough attention they have a problem and ignoring the problem isn’t going to make it go away. if anything, it’d probably make most people do more drastic things out of desperation

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